Because humans have free will they can choose to orchestrate the action of there lives. If you try and control and manipulate the fragile mind to get what you want it’s only because you are codependent and insecure you may lose something because you are fixated on feeding your desires for selfish gain.

The less control we seek the freer we become. Love is free and it’s the absence of control. Love should be given freely without expecting things back in return.

A controlling nature, the adopted trait of control is embodied do to the ego left in a state of want, desire and the fear of being left in the cold.

Why a narcissist only knows how to control instead of letting a person freely find there own way and holding space for them. Narcissism is almost entirely about gaining control over others, as is codependent behavior. It’s codependency that temps a controlling nature.

The narcissist lives in fear of losing control. They see other people in their environment at home, at work, friends, relatives, and neighbors as extensions to themselves but in an out of balance kind of way. They see themselves at the center of the world, the controller, an idol to be adored and admired and this makes it acceptable for them to abuse others and try to rearrange the ‘significant others’ in there life to look towards them, and admire them and this goes for him or her it’s not just a male thing it’s a negative masculine energy trait and this can be something a female shows or a male but it is often a male thing if I’m going, to be honest here.

The only way you can free yourself of this bondage that enslaves you to get what you want for selfish gain is to stop controlling and simply just start loving and when you come to love yourself you will be content alone and you will instead of attracting toxic relationships that often turn into codependency you will attract a support system and people that will truly love you unconditionally.

You don’t want to control your environment in a negative way and dictate people without allowing them to beat to the drum of there free will because this fear only hurts you and it hurts the people around you and unless we learn to be ok alone and ok with surrendering to uncomfortable decisions people make that we don’t like then we will never break the toxic cycle of control which creates the narcissist!

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Written by Jonathon RA Stearns AKA the Mangotarian

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